cmake: allow disabling building with the install name directory

When custom install names and rpaths setups are used they may not
work in the build tree as-is (namely when using absolute paths for
install names in order to avoid rpath juggling in downstream projects).

Add a flag for opting out of this behaviour.

See: https://reviews.llvm.org/D42463
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