[scudo] Add free_sized and free_aligned_sized (#186881)

Add one new flag, dealloc_align_mismatch that turns on/off alignment
checks. Add three new config parameters, one for deallocate type
mismatch (such as abort on new/free if true), one for checking if the
size parameter matches on dealloc and one for checking if the alignment
is correct on a dealloc.

Add extra flags to be passed for to indicate to do an align/size check.

Update report functions to better indicate the errors. Add unit tests
for all of these.

This is based on these upstream cls by jcking:

https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/pull/147735
https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/pull/146556

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