[mlir][vector] Use `source` as the source argument name (#158258)

This patch updates the following ops to use `source` (instead of
`vector`) as the name for their source argument:
  * `vector.extract`
  * `vector.scalable.extract`
  * `vector.extract_strided_slice`

This change ensures naming consistency with the "builders" for these Ops
that already use the name `source` rather than `vector`. It also
addresses part of:
  * https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/issues/131602

Specifically, it ensures that we use `source` and `dest` for read and
write operations, respectively (as opposed to `vector` and `dest`).

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