[libc++] Fix unintended ABI break in associative containers with reference comparators (#118685)

While reference comparators are a terrible idea and it's not entirely
clear whether they are supported, fixing the unintended ABI break is
straightforward so we should do it as a first step.

Fixes #118559

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