[clang-tidy] Apply cppcoreguidelines-avoid-capture-default-when-capturin-this only to by-value capture default

Since Cpp Core Guidelines have accepted the change in the rules:
https://github.com/isocpp/CppCoreGuidelines/commit/3c90d590e138c3a1e4eb59234e410e00545326de

Also rename the check accordingly.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D148340

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