[LoopUtils] Don't wrap in getLoopEstimatedTripCount (#129080)

getLoopEstimatedTripCount returns the trip count based on profiling
data, and its documentation says that it could return 0 when the trip
count is zero, but this is not the case: a valid trip count can never be
zero, and it returns 0 when the unsigned ExitCount is incremented by 1
and wraps. Some callers are careful about checking for this zero value
in an std::optional, but it makes for an API with footguns, as a
std::optional return value indicates that a non-nullopt value would be a
valid trip count. Fix this by explicitly returning std::nullopt when the
return value would wrap, and strip additional checks in callers. This
also fixes a minor bug in LoopVectorize.