[LV][TTI] Calculate cost of extracting last index in a scalable vector (#144086)

There are a couple of places in the loop vectoriser where we
want to calculate the cost of extracting the last lane in a
vector. However, we wrongly assume that asking for the cost
of extracting lane (VF.getKnownMinValue() - 1) is an accurate
representation of the cost of extracting the last lane. For
SVE at least, this is non-trivial as it requires the use of
whilelo and lastb instructions.

To solve this problem I have added a new
getReverseVectorInstrCost interface where the index is used
in reverse from the end of the vector. Suppose a vector has
a given ElementCount EC, the extracted/inserted lane would be
EC - 1 - Index. For scalable vectors this index is unknown at
compile time. I've added a AArch64 hook that better represents
the cost, and also a RISCV hook that maintains compatibility
with the behaviour prior to this PR.

I've also taken the liberty of adding support in vplan for
calculating the cost of VPInstruction::ExtractLastElement.